Moving to Aged Care
Moving can be an overwhelming experience for any one at any age or life stage, but for anyone making a significant life change, such as downsizing and moving to an aged care home, it can be especially overwhelming (both physically and emotionally) for everyone involved (including family, friends and loved ones), particularly if fare-welling and sorting out the family home after many years.
Change is rarely easy, nor is it easy to farewell a loved home and the lifetime of possessions within, but as we age our needs may change and our home may now not suit our essential needs – it may now be too large, too isolated, too expensive to maintain, have too much stuff to manage and look after, and so, sadly, reality steps in.
On the upside, it is a great opportunity to refresh, rebalance and refocus on what is truly important – you.
It can be a challenging time as many of us are emotionally connected to what we own. Family dynamics can get strained and it is important to protect family relationships. Keeping focused on priorities and what is truly important can keep us on track. Support and non-judgmental assistance is highly recommended. Be kind to yourself and your loved ones and please do not under-estimate how physically and mentally challenging it can be.
As well as deciding on a new home that provides the level of support and care now needed, lots of decisions will be required to plan the move, what you can take and deal with the lifetime of possessions you may need to leave behind. We currently live in an “age of abundance of stuff”, where most of us can buy what we want when we need it, thus many of our homes are overflowing with stuff, making a downsizing move quite daunting.
Most of our lives we have upsized, so we are not necessarily experienced at downsizing. Not surprisingly, one of the biggest reasons stopping people downsizing is dealing with everything they own.
Although it is not easy, the key is to find a way to move forward. So, realistically –
- Where do you start?
- How to plan it all, get it done and achieve deadlines?
- What if you physically can’t do it all?
- Availability of family or loved ones to help?
- Will you need professional assistance like allsorters?
- Realistically, what will it cost?
- Clarifying goals and priorities, keeping on track and coming to terms with the transition
- Setting out a timeline – the move, sale of house, settlement
- Where to maximise your time for greatest return
- If selling the family home, how to make it sparkle for sale (maximising the sale price, whilst minimising costs)
- Identifying what to take and what must go –
- Favourites (must haves, what you love)
- Functional items (what you currently use and what will support you in your new lifestyle)
- Farewelling what must go (give, sell, donate, toss)
- Getting it all done –
- Packing, moving, unpacking
- Sorting what’s left – items to be sold, recycled, donated or disposed of
- Refreshing and presenting the property for sale to maximise its sale price
allsorters specialise in assisting senior adults in their third age and their families – sometimes our clients have no family to assist them, sometimes our clients just need a little guidance to get on the right track, sometimes their family maybe remote or time poor.
We are all unique and thus no client or home is the same, so we provide a customised service to meet each person’s needs. Don’t lose sight of what is important – sadly, often families find it hard to focus on settling their loved one into their new home because they are too busy sorting out what’s left behind in the home.
For carers on this journey with a loved one, it is also a challenging time to ensure your loved one’s safety, health, welfare and emotional needs, while also helping them to settle in and embrace their new lifestyle.
It’s a huge job sorting an entire home. With our service, you can concentrate on yourself or your loved one, while knowing we are doing what needs to be done to achieve your best interests. Alternatively if you need just a little assistance and guidance, ask about our Downsizing Planning Consultation ($250-$295).
To discuss your needs and how we can help, contact Mary